Ah,
motivation. That
elusive muse that
keeps everyone
going (in)sane.
Motivation is
everywhere: Why
do people fall
in love? Why do
people go to the
gym? Why do we
buy certain things?
What is motivation
anyway?
Motivation
is the fuel that
drives people
to achieve things
despite being
faced by obstacles
to the goal. Motivation
can come in many
forms; whether
financial, emotional,
physical or other,
motivation is
a necessary ingredient
to keep us going
on. One of the
most common places
where motivation
is most needed
is in the workplace,
where long hours
of work and difficult
relationships
can get us to
give up, if we're
not properly motivated.
What does it take
to be motivated
in the workplace?
Here are a few
ideas:
Live
in the present
According
to Nancy O’Hara
in her book Work
from the inside
out, “We
are looking for
certainty…
and when we construct
in our minds a
vision of how
things should
be…we can’t
help but be disappointed,
since the reality
is always different.”
Eliminating expectations
should be the
first step to
gaining motivation.
When we desire
material things,
we get saddened
when we don’t
get what we want
when we want it—like
right away. We
expect certain
outcomes and when
we don’t
see it materializing,
we feel disappointed
and ultimately,
resentful about
it.
O’Hara
writes, “Desire
is the first cause
of disillusionment
and disappointment.”
She adds that
the best way to
eliminate expectations
would be to just
live in the present.
Scott, a 30-year
old supervisor
shared, “Joking
around is what
makes the day
go by; a long
loud scream in
the morning pumps
me up and gets
me ready.”
It sounds easy,
but living day
by day would be
hell if you don’t
like what you
do. You can only
do so much with
what you have.
“You
are your work”
O’Hara
hit the target
when she wrote
that “Work
is not something
that doesn’t
matter, that has
no merit, that
is just something
to get through,
to endure….”
If you find that
work is something
you trudge through
instead of something
you breeze through,
it’s time
to analyze your
position. Work
gives us dignity.
Why are you where
you are now? Looming
unemployment is
not exactly a
favorable option,
but working in
a job that (at
the most extreme)
you hate may well
be just as bad.
Though
money is a determining
a factor, there
are jobs out there
that don’t
pay much but offer
rich sources for
gaining experience.
Instead of working
for a fast-food
outlet and earning
minimum wage,
why not be an
intern in a company
that matches your
interest? It may
not pay much or
you may not even
be compensated
at all, but you
will learn a lot,
which will give
you an edge in
building up your
résumé.
You may well find
that an impressive
résumé
is one of the
best tools you
can use to open
up bigger and
better opportunities
to yourself.
Know
what your plans
are
A
map is useful
if you know the
destination. Working
in a job without
any definite goal
or plan in mind
will make you
liable to drift
aimlessly. This
experience can
be a waste of
time that scatters
energy and creativity.
Time does not
stop for anybody.
Before you know
it, the year would
have passed and
you have nothing
to show for.
Most
of the people
I talked with
didn’t have
any semblance
of a plan. Most
of them stick
to the here and
now. An employee
in a testing company,
29-year old Travis,
confided, “I
can tell you what
gets me up in
the morning: [the
rock band] 311
blares on my stereo,
and I lay in bed
wishing I could
sleep all day.
Then my kitty
[cat] comes and
licks my face,
and I pet her
and eventually
I decide [that]
if I don't get
out of bed I never
will, so I get
out of bed and
into the shower.
That's it. That's
the magic that
gets me to work
day in and day
out.”
Some
are hindered by
fear: of failure,
or of making a
wrong decision.
“Why should
I change jobs
when I get compensated
well, have great
insurance and
I’m familiar
with what I’m
doing?”
asks Jenny, a
25-year old secretary
in a publishing
house. Jenny has
a bachelor’s
degree in English,
but never had
the guts to try
out in one of
the school districts
where she could
really do what
she went to school
for. Every day,
she feels like
a zombie, going
to work just because
she has to. Knowing
the root of the
problem can help
you plan where
you truly want
to be.
“Challenge
yourself every
day to find something
in your work to
be grateful for.”
Artists
have a more interesting
take on motivation
since theirs is
a struggle with
creativity. Mark,
a 24-year old
composer simply
stated, “I
love music.”
Loving what you
do makes for good
motivation. Max,
another musician
who has recently
left his day job
to concentrate
solely on his
music told me
that: “No
matter how foolish
it is, you always
think that you’re
the greatest composer
who ever lived.
It may [or may
not be] correct,
but that’s
your conviction.”
Gordy,
a 25-year old
freelance musician
as well, avowed,
“If you
wake up in the
morning and the
first thing you
think of is music,
that’s what
you’re meant
to do.”
Yet another musician,
John, added, “Friday
comes around and
if you’re
really into music
and [in] what
you’re doing,
[my] weekend is
a time for people
not to bug me
[so I can work
on my music].”
At
the core of attaining
motivation, many
struggle to pre-occupy
themselves with
anything that
will make life
a little less
burdensome. Mike,
a 21-year old
programmer explained,
“I start
talking to myself,
saying that I
won't get anywhere
if I don't try.
Nothing is impossible,
it only requires
some effort.”
Philip, a middle-aged
employee in an
administrative
position, summed
it up, “[I
get motivated
in] a number of
ways, music always
does it. I love
to hear it and
play it. These
days poverty is
a big motivator.
It sucks. I am
here because the
schedule allows
me to go to school.
Believe it or
not, God motivates
me a lot. To clean
up my life and
do good and stuff.”
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WAYS TO MOTIVATE
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