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What
Do You Do When You Lose
Your Job?
By
Lolita Villa
The
company's retrenching,
and you're one of
the retrenched. Maybe
you made a mistake
at work and got yourself
fired. Or you resigned
because your job just
sucked. Either way,
you're back at home,
penny-pinching, and
living off your savings.
What should you do
now?
The
first thing to remember
is not to brood about
your situation. You
may be going through
a difficult time,
financially, psychologically,
or socially, especially
if you've just severed
ties with an organization
you've worked with
for several years.
But if you're looking
to bounce back from
this momentary set-back,
you have to realize
that losing a job
is not the end of
the world. It is a
temporary problem
that can be resolved
soon if you focus
on doing the right
things.
Staying
proactive and productive
is vital while you're
between jobs. It doesn't
mean that you have
to sustain the same
level of stress as
you had when you were
working. It's about
being objective in
assessing your situation,
and maintaining an
awareness, so that
you can make the most
of the opportunities
that come your way.
Here's a few things
you need to remember:
Make
a clean break.
When you're folding
up and saying goodbye,
don't forget to tie-up
every loose end before
you go. Whatever reason
you have for leaving,
it pays to make sure
your ex-employer maintains
a respectful opinion
of you. Get a written
recommendation from
him if you can. Make
it a point to turn
over all your files
to your successor.
Most importantly,
clear-up every issue
you have with the
HRD as thoroughly
as possible. Issues
like back pay, the
details of your separation/
retirement package
and other monetary
matters are concerns
that requires your
careful attention.
Don't
be so uptight.
This is your time
to relax. Go out with
friends, or go on
a vacation if you
can afford it. Get
busy with community
work. You may not
be pushing everything
you've got to find
another job, but you're
sitting back and taking
a bigger view of things.
Get a wider perspective
on life, and evaluate
yourself and your
goals without being
too hard on yourself.
Reflect on the lessons
you've learned in
the last job you had.
Consult your family
and take the time
to have a more spiritual
approach to your situation.
Do you need to re-direct
your career path?
Seek answers to questions
you've never found
the time to ask.
Build
your skills.
Add to your know-how,
or sharpen the skills
that you already have.
I.T. related skills
are bankable in most
industries: take a
short course, self-study
by experimenting with
computer programs
and the Internet,
or enroll in a second
degree. Attend workshops
and seminars that
are related to your
line of work. You
don't have to spend
so much if you're
trying to scrimp:
check out online announcements
or the newspapers
for workshops that
are open to the public.
Buy or borrow books
on self-improvement
topics such as personal
management, work habits,
or dealing with professional
relationships. Read
trade and business
publications on the
industry you want
to work in. Surfing
the net is also a
good way to learn
more information.
Engage
in profitable activities.
You haven't found
a new job yet and
your financial resources
are steadily depleting.
Make a little money
and keep yourself
busy while waiting.
Engage in some buy
and sell, or offer
services on a consultancy
basis. Team up with
friends whom you can
work with. Help out
in the family business
to earn your keep
at home. Maybe you'll
find entrepreneurship
more appealing than
employment. Often,
activities like these
can help you decide
on the next step of
your career growth.
Compete
relentlessly.
In job hunting, you
have new grads to
contend with, as well
as experienced job
seekers who might
be more qualified
for that job than
you. Don't take the
passive attitude.
Sharpen your job hunting
techniques. Attend
job fairs and scan
the classifieds online
and in the papers
with a religious fervor.
Network like crazy:
make your strengths
known to as many people
as possible and let
them know what kind
of job you are looking
for. If you don't
get positive replies
in a few months' time,
don't despair. Perseverance
will get you through.
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