FEATURE ARTICLE
Get the Winning
Edge at Work
By Lolita Villa
Have you ever felt
frustrated with your work? Did you ever see your job as
a vicious cycle, an ongoing parade of deadlines and tasks,
with no hope of satisfaction in sight? Unfortunately,
many people think of their jobs as prison walls, and labor
each day as if they were digging their way uphill.
Unfortunately, prolonging
this existence will make you throw in the towel before
you can succeed. Gaining fulfilment from work is not a
trivial matter in one's career. Statistics show that people
who are happier with what they do tend to be more prosperous
in their jobs. On the other hand, with the state of employment
these days, it won't do to keep quitting a job until you
"chance" upon something that will actually make
you happy.
So how does one find
that winning edge in work? How can one find fulfilment
and consequently, success on the job?
According to Cynthia
Kersey, author of "Be Unstoppable: Learning to Win
at Work and Life," being unstoppable, or persevering
against all odds, to surmount adversity, is essential
in getting that winning edge, in work or life. And to
be unstoppable, knowing your true purpose in life is an
essential factor.
Like a fish
in the water
Jane, a sales agent, followed her mother's advice to take
a course that she wasn't happy with. After taking two
accounting jobs and getting laid off or resigning early,
she came to the thought that she was simply a failure.
Fortunately, Jane decided to try a telemarketing opportunity.
The job complemented her natural tendency to talk and
persuade people. Within a few months on the job, she became
one of the top sellers in her company! With this new "career"
Jane went on to have a successful life in sales. Though
it was never easy, she did not fear challenges and fought
her way to the top.
What's the difference?
While we may think that Jane's initial experience shows
her incompetence, her later performance shows us that
Jane (just like everyone else) has tremendous potential,
once she was given the chance to use and develop her God-given
abilities. Often, we try our best to beat a path in an
area that we are not meant to trod. If you feel like this,
evaluate yourself and try to find out if you belong where
you are now, or are you just a fish trying to swim on
dry land?
Discover your
true purpose
One way to achieve sparkling success is to discover your
true purpose in life. Ask yourself these questions: if
you could do anything you wanted, how would your life
be 5 years from now? Once you answer your question, know
this secret: you can achieve that vision, given that you
have the desire and the willingness to persevere in your
goal.
Being unstoppable requires
developing a mindset will keep you from quitting, even
in the dourest of circumstance. If you want to be a high-achiever,
seek to develop these four characteristics: cling to your
true purpose, believe in yourself, prepare for the challenges,
and persevere.
One way to discover
your true purpose in life is to keep a journal. Your purpose
is the unique contribution that only you can give to yourself,
your family, your community, and to God. In journaling,
reflect on the qualities, deeds and characteristics for
which you would like to be remembered. Consider your organizations
involvements, the jobs you've had, and brings you most
fulfilment. After reflecting on your writing, you will
discover a pattern revealing to you your innate values.
Do you think you were
created to encourage others, to serve, to create, to manage?
Meditate on your ideas. From this new sense of awareness,
make sure that every project, job or involvement you pursue
is in line with this true purpose. Determine these things
and you won't have to waste years trying to discover what
you ought to be doing with your life.
Believe and
persevere
When you have that inner peace, echoing affirmation of
this awareness, believe in yourself. Having the confidence
and belief to pursue the immaterial is necessary for success.
This is also called by another name: faith. Remember that
what you think and believe are also the things that you
will create with your actions. And it is our actions that
shape our destinies.
Complement your belief
system with work. Nothing beats good, old-fashioned work.
Saint James once said that faith without works is dead.
Take your ideas and your inspired motives and concretize
them. Finally, backed up with a belief in your purpose,
a sense of courage and focus, persevere in reaching your
goal. Though they may sound simple, these basic steps
can be achieved by taking the first step and working hard
to make them into a reality.
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